sometimes he fucking drives me crazy. I have been married for quite a while & we absolutely have what I would term a happy marriage so I just wonder how other women feel...please weigh in & let me know if I am or am not alone.
I can go from totally loving him one moment to wanting to fly at him & smash his face two seconds later. Then I'm over it again. I want to know if he ever feels the same way about me. He says he doesn't & that he loves me all the time even when he's mad at me. I would seriously have my feelings hurt if he thought about me some of the things I think about him.
But then I get a good night's sleep or a few seconds pass & poof, it's all good & I love him again. Does that make me crazy? Or is it the norm for the mid-thirties, late-twenties, early-forties Mom & wife/girlfriend that I am?
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Anonymous Says...
"OK...you absolutely caught my attention! YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!!! My husband and I have what I believe to be a very strong, secure, loving relationship...HOWEVER, he can drive me absolutely up the wall! He is very content living an extraordinary routine life. Wakes up happy (ughh!)at the same time EVERYDAY, get in the shower, watches a little news while he eats some dry schredded wheat [out of the plastic container, feel a little bad for him here though cause he would love to have it w/ some milk but...lactose intolerant], leaves the house with the "this is going to be a great day attitude". Don't get me wrong, this is all great stuff, however, he does all this without even a DROP of caffeine required! He hasn't even taken a sick day in over 10 years...
I have more to add...I'm just getting started, but I need my 8 hours sleep and still will REQUIRE my... "Caffeine! It is my shepherd; I shall not doze. It maketh me to wake in green pastures: It leadeth me beyond the sleeping masses. It restoreth my buzz: It leadeth me in the paths of consciousness. Yea, I walk through the shadow of addiction, I will fear no Equal For thou art with me; thy cream and thy sugar they comfort me. My Starbucks...Thou annointest my day with pep; my mug runneth over, Surely richness and taste shall follow me all the days of my life:
And I will dwell in the House of Iced White Mochas (shaken not stirred) forever."
to be continued...goodnight :)"
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OK...you absolutely caught my attention! YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!!! My husband and I have what I believe to be a very strong, secure, loving relationship...HOWEVER, he can drive me absolutely up the wall! He is very content living an extraordinary routine life. Wakes up happy (ughh!)at the same time EVERYDAY, get in the shower, watches a little news while he eats some dry schredded wheat [out of the plastic container, feel a little bad for him here though cause he would love to have it w/ some milk but...lactose intolerant], leaves the house with the "this is going to be a great day attitude". Don't get me wrong, this is all great stuff, however, he does all this without even a DROP of caffeine required! He hasn't even taken a sick day in over 10 years...
ReplyDeleteI have more to add...I'm just getting started, but I need my 8 hours sleep and still will REQUIRE my... "Caffeine! It is my shepherd; I shall not doze. It maketh me to wake in green pastures: It leadeth me beyond the sleeping masses. It restoreth my buzz: It leadeth me in the paths of consciousness. Yea, I walk through the shadow of addiction, I will fear no Equal For thou art with me; thy cream and thy sugar they comfort me. My Starbucks...Thou annointest my day with pep; my mug runneth over, Surely richness and taste shall follow me all the days of my life:
And I will dwell in the House of Iced White Mochas (shaken not stirred) forever."
to be continued...goodnight :)